Does time never change for girls….?

India , a devotee country where people worship goddess Durga, Laxmi, Saraswati and Kaali. We Indians celebrate Navratri and worship 9 goddesses for 9 days of Navratra. In Indian mythological books I always found a woman as a strong character. She has strength, passion, anger, Grace and love. Many artists have said that women are the most beautiful creation of God

In a famous Sanskrit shlok “यत्र नार्यस्तु पूज्यन्ते , रमन्ते तत्र देवता “ (yatr naryastu pujyante, tatr devta ramnte) means gods live at the same place where women get respect or treated respectfully.

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This is what our ancestors had taught us respect women” but when I see the history of India i found the reality is different. When I was in 10th standard teacher gave us  the topic Dowry and said to write 300 words and I was like “what should i write…??  Who ask for dowry in present era??? ” then I copied the eassy from key/guide book (sanjeev passbook famous guide book). That was the time I felt dowry cases have been old, today the Laws are so much powerful even some women misuse these kind of laws as i used to hear and read these kind of news.  dowry2

But the last Saturday incident that happened in Bengaluru opened up  my eyes. I remember my mother usually say

In early age,  women were uneducated because of some boundations and limitations of their family.  Women were not dependent upon herself  financially,  and that’s the only reason she could not take decision of leaving her husband however his behavior was. They used to tolerate whatever happening in their life. But nowadays girls are not like that , today’s women are BOLD and BRAVE. She know her rights, she is educated and financially independent. ”

and  I’m too agree with her views.But her maternal grandma used to say, “The time for women will not change ever if the mindset of people does not change“.   I was like “its not like that , the time will change”…….. but today I felt that really time never change for woman… She was always a victim. When a girl child take birth  people show happiness from outside but internally they  find her as burden…. Her family feels she is a burden. They brought  up her  with the high class values like girls can’t do this and that, a girl can’t speak louder, girl can’t wear this or that and etc . And when she get married to someone who loves to torture her mentally and physically people tell her a woman can only become a homemaker, obey  your husband & your in-laws and live with him no matter how he or they behave with you…… No matter how harsh they I. . ….. .   No matter how worst your husband  is with you……. No matter how much they torture you mentally or physically…. . Live with your husband  , now his house is yours , if you leave your husbands home, society blame you for this but they don’t understand a girl goes in a palanquin not in a Bier . This is what we teach our girls.

And when someone ask for dowry after marriage, girls parents fulfill their wishes.  main-qimg-39f6ea231ccf6b8e861450a75a7db052

I don’t know why parents  feel disreputed  if a girl come back to home after marriage.. ..???  

why they get ready to give money to the people who assault her…..??

why they think that dowry will save their image if they ready to give the demanded amount. ….??  

Are we living in a stone age?? Or our thinking is still narrow. . .?? 

The reason why I wrote this post is the dowry murder case of Bhavya handa which i read in The News Minute .
“A 26 year old girl Bhavya, working in a Bengaluru based company, married with a boy in November 2016. She had met this boy in her office, they were together for 4 years before marriage. After marriage, the boy and his family demanded dowry, they tortured her mentally and physically. She died on Saturday after a fall from her balcony. Her neighbors and building security guard heard her last scream and a thud sound .”

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The decision of marriage with a boy, with whom she wanted to spend her life, proved  wrong. She was educated and financially independent, then why this happened with her….?? 

Was her life too cheap so that she had to face this tragic death?

Are our moral values this much high that a girl need to be victim unwillingly?

Will our society give away “best spouse” award to her for spending life with her husband?

OR,

Is it truth that the time never change if the mindset does not change?

Will such time come when people actually respect girls ?

Will such time come when people will  give the actual rights of equality?

Hope to see this one day. 

 

 

Rajasthan Diwas – witness the electrifying festival

Jaipur celebrating RAJASTHAN DIWAS . “Rajasthan” ,  a land of warriers, celebrates its DAY every year on 30th March as  Rajasthan DIWAS(day) in the memory of it’s formation on 30th March, 1949. Rajasthan is the largest state of India  and undoubtedly one of the most vibrant states. It is the only state to witness the amalgamation of Royalty, Heritage and Modernization at the same time.

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Every year,  ‘Rajasthan Diwas’ is celebrated throughout the state with great effort to reveal and witness the honor of the heritage, cultures and traditions of Rajasthan. People of the state get together on this joyous occasion and celebrate their pride to be a Rajasthani to show the state’s glorifying history  by performing several activities.

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The beautiful Pink city and the capital  Jaipur is decorated with glittering lights and vibrant colors followed by a planned set of functions. The government of the state plans a colorful event every year on the occasion of Rajasthan DIWAS.  Its not like celebrating a day only its like a festival as the celebration continue a week long.The 4 day event was commenced on 27th March with the opening ceremony at the famous Albert Hall.

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A Camel Tattoo event had been organized to honor the ship of the desert and the state animal ‘Camel’. The event continues till 30th March 2017 (Today)  with various cultural events planned for each day. The second day of the event began with the bhajans at the eminent and the pious Laxmi Narayan Mandir situated at the Birla Mandir. Afterwards in the daytime adventure sports festival was organized which have proposed activities like Hot Air Ballooning, Para Motoring, Rock Climbing, Aero modeling, ATV rides, Horse Riding, land Sailing etc. These adventurous activities have been scheduled at the SMS Investment Ground.

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Apart from this, ‘Akashganga’ a sky diving show by IAF and then a BSF Camel Show had been organized later in the evening. The festival organise  Children Film Festival at the Inox Crystal Palm Multiplex and International Festival of Short Films on Culture. people come from the various places to watch the event . The ambiance of the festival gives goosebumps to each and every spectator.

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Rajasthan is known for its culture and the history and if you want to witness the history in few days you must visit during Rajasthan Utsav.

 

Successful

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SUCCESS-It’s not just a word. It’s everyone’s desire. There’s no one who doesn’t want success. A seven letter word has a power to make you successful. Something like everyone wants to be like you.

You get only one chance to get success and that time you must have a courage to take this chance “a risk”. Without taking this risk you can’t get this desirable position where everyone adore you, admire you and accept you as an ideal.

“Life is a risk, if you have courage to take a risk

Then surely you get success & prosperity.”

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Privacy – a freedom

Private life is the fundamental right of every person. Every person has a private part of his or her life that he or she doesn’t want to share with anyone.  For me, privacy is the right to be alone and keep your information private. Privacy give you a right to choose a person with whom you love to share your information.

Society, with lack of privacy is intolerable but with privacy wouldn’t be society at all. So the balance is needed, privacy gives a right to  create his or her own space, to make personal decisions or views and it’s the right that makes everyone free. 

Without privacy life is like a hell. You would be highly vulnerable to the control of others. There’s no freedom at all. You would be more likely to be manipulated.

Society for me, privacy is a freedom. A freedom of making decisions, having thoughts or views and most of all freedom of making yourself private.

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Overworked and underpaid

At some point of professional life  every person feels like overworked and underpaid. He or she felt I worked for long hours passionately and no one said thanks. The feeling is nothing more than an impulsive reaction to frustration. The less paying employee felt undervalued and when that happens, no one wins.

Less paid employees replaced skilled employees and may have a higher salary. If you feel you’re really underpaid, take an action right now. First, calculate your worth. There are so many online  tools like glassdoor. You can google too then you may find out you’re paid more fairer then you thought.

Let your company know you feel you’re worth more because you’re overworked and underpaid.

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What makes a person extra-ordinary…?? 

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What makes a person extra-ordinary…?? 

It’s a very  simple question because every person knows the answer. “a hardworking, determine,  punctual, talented and successful person is an EXTRA ORDINARY person.”

It’s a  very tough for me to stand in this extra ordinary scale because I’m just opposite, I’m lazy and  not punctual. I am not talented according to my parents because I’m average in academics and not so good in sports and other activities. So if I’m not hardworking, punctual and talented, I’m definitely not a determined and successful one. I’m just an ordinary person. 

But I genuinely feel that there is a moment in your life….. Yes, it’s an ordinary moment that has a power to add a word EXTRA  in your personality or your whole life. It’s just an ordinary moment that change your life. And I think, “when that moment will come in your  life you don’t need talent, punctuality, determination or hardwork to hold that, you just need a COURAGE to do something that’s impossible to others. You just need a view to see the word IMPOSSIBLE  to I’M POSSIBLE. 

And the very moment become your life-changing extraordinary moment.  That’s the only moment when no one see how talented or punctual you are.  No one see how determined or successful you are. 

EVERY MOMENT IS ORDINARY BUT ONLY YOU KNOW HOW TO MAKE IT EXTRA ORDINARY. 

They only see your courage to make impossible thing to possible. 

Always remember 

“If  YOU DO ORDINARY WORK, DON’T EXPECT THE RESULT WILL BE EXTRA ORDINARY.  YOU NEED TO DO SOMETHING THAT ORDINARY PEOPLE CAN’T EVEN THINK. “

Symptoms of Indian middle class family 

In our society, not only in India.I’m talking about the whole world where people exist, we are divided family  according to our bank balance as there are three kinds of family exist in the world.

1.Upper class family 

2.Middle class family 

3.Poor class family

Upper class family no doubt they are rich by money.

Poor class familythey don’t have money, they survive on Umaaah y of government and rich people. 

Middle class family  – it’s my topic of the day. They are so confused family  on the earth because they are surviving in between rich and poor people. They are confuse because they really don’t know where they exist. If you are thinking what kind of confusion they have….. Because they have home to live, bread to eat and enough money to survive,I’m telling you this isn’t a satisfying answer. There are two subtypes of middle class family 

1.Upper middle class family                             2.Lower middle class family 

And I still don’t know who invented these two subtypes ?? (confused)

Well, it’s a very thin line between upper middle class family and lower middle class family. If family A has a car (ford) and family B has a car (maruti Suzuki), family than A belongs to upper middle class and family B belongs to lower middle class. (a stupid logic for the subtypes
Here I’m sharing with you some symptoms of INDIAN middle class family hope you all will agree with me.
1. If a middle class family (father, mother and child) is going for a dinner in a restaurant. First they all wear special clothes which the usually wear in functions and they pretend to be gentle if the child smiles or put his finger in his mouth ,his father scolds him and order to behave good (and the kid thinks “they have never said this at home ever”) They order meal after scanning the menu and Dal Fry is must ordered item.

2. A middle class person is a calm person because he knows how to survive in his low salary. Every month he becomes rich and poor at the same time. When he gets his salary cheque, he feels like Ambani and when he realizes the expenses, he feel like,”we are very MIDDLE CLASS. ” Middle class people know how to bargain? How to buy expensive things on lowest price. BECAUSE THAT TIME THEY KNOW

HOW TO BECOME POOR.

3.If a person is confused like where he stand on the middle class scale, there are a couple of hints. For example, if his parents still think that the entire world, be it the maid, the driver or the president of  billion dollar bank, is ought to personally scum you, then you’re basically living in Waggle ki duniya.

4. For Every middle class, poor people are criminals specially maids  and rich people are  alcoholics, party animal and  businessmen as they have seen  the same in movies. 
5. The middle class family think more to invest money rather than spending on branded items shopping and entertainment. The wish to earn more on low investment . They try to make money by hook or by crook . They wish to earn more on low investment

IF YOU ARE FROM MIDDLE CLASS FAMILY, YOU DEFINITELY HEARD THESE LINES. 

*Daughter wants to go out in shorts*

Have some dress sense . Wear clothes properly. We are middle-class only.”
*Parents find out that their kids drink*

“Don’t drink, we are middle class PEOPLE .”

“study well, we are middle class people “
*Going to attend a family wedding*

Take out my gold set BECAUSE THAT BACK BITCHING AUNT NEEDS TO SEE HOW RICH WE ARE!

But it’s time to stop this madness. If your family has migrated completely from bars of soap to shower gels, than you’re not middle-class anymore. You cannot play the middle class card ,the day you’re free from using a DOVE soap. This is progress. Embrace it. Hold it tight and never let it go. Protect it. AND BE HAPPY.
Hope you enjoy this post.

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Green jaipur 

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Green, the color of life & nature, is the color between blue and yellow on the spectrum of visible light. 

Green color indicates the growth, freshness, harmony, environment, safety and fertility. Green color in our national flag India. 

Sharing some beautiful pictures of jaipur. Hope you like it. 

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Nahargarh fort

Nahargarh biological park

#greenjaipur it’s easy being green 

Conquer your inner voice 

#thedailyprompt #conquer

Have you heard about this quote, “You are your own enemy.” I always find this right.  Infact my saying is “your inner voice is your enemy”. Don’t you agree with me. . ..??? 

No,really..!!

Well, it’s very hard to digest this truth. Our mind always works opposite what our heart wants to do and sometimes we do such things that they both don’t want to do. I’ll love to share an inserting  situation that happen in everyone’s life. 

When you start study  a month ago  your exams, your heart and mind give you a  green signal  for study like ” if you don’t start study now, you can’t score  for first division” and you sit down and check your syllabus to know from which chapter you should start  then you open your book and start reading the chapter with concentration. Suddenly your inner voice whispers in your ears, “the chapter is so easy let’s skip to the tough one.” You search and find syllabus is easy.I will complete it in 10 days, lets have fun 20 days more, apparently mind give this thought NOC ) and you close your book and enjoy your 20days in watching movies, listen songs and do chatting. Unfortunately you can’t understand 5days have been passed and only 5 days left. 

After 25days your friend ask you,bro u must be doing revision” and you say, “no yaar , i have just picked the book now

Your friend ,”I am scared yaar, only 5 days left”

Then your mind realize it’s too late to complete syllabus let’s go and check important topics. You do the same your heart beat like drum  and think how to complete it and for 2-4 hours you study with concentration  again your inner voice whispers the topic is too boring let’s take a nap or lets study with music. 

Before a day of exam you feel like lets happen whatever happen will face it. At night your mind says, “Man ! You don’t know anything you are like an empty glass, just fill it ” your heart is beating faster compared to last 29days and you can’t take full rest. Next day you see the question paper and think you have not studied it even you have never seen it in your life and you give worst performance  ever  but inner voice suggest ” do not tell any one, all is well we will give best in next paper and then the result appears. When you see your result your inner voice whispers paper was tough ,don’t blame yourself , better luck next time.
It’s not always  good to listen your inner voice, it has the power to lead you or mislead you. Sometime it is bad to listen your inner voice. Its not neccessary that your inner voice is right.

It can be your best friend if you control it otherwise its your biggest enemy.

Conquer your inner voice before it conquer you and become critical inner voice.